Sometimes it happens that to start the relationship is far easier than to finish it. But how to behave, when the feelings’re gone and you do not want to continue the relationship, you’d like to have a new one. Your man has no clue about what you want to leave him.
You realize that nothing can be returned and you’d better not waste time out of pity for your ex partner. But you’re afraid to say it directly, knowing that you’ll hurt him. How to tell a man about breakup?
First quietly think about the causes of your decision. Then, if your confidence is not shaken, get ready for the fact that the explanation will not be easy. Not only for him but also for you.
Do not leave him a note with the message that the love has gone and that’s why you leave him. At least, it is bad. You should tell him about the break in person. You must pluck up courage. The explanation must be tactful. On his side, manifestations of anger and misunderstanding are possible. But you must bear this.
Try to avoid reproaches and tears. It’s too late to blame. It is useless to have it out. You are broking up. So try to make this break-up not overshadowed by empty squabbles. Parting is always is hard. Don’t make it harder?
Tell the guy what made you decide to break up. Give him an opportunity to express everything that has long been boiling in his soul.. After all, he has the right.
If you can not decide how to start a conversation, try to imagine all the thoughts that your boyfriend may say when he knows about a break-up. It will be easier for you to find the right words and arrange thoughts. A real conversation will be a little easier.
If you are afraid to tell him straight about the break-up or afraid of his reaction to such an extent that you do not want to be alone with him at this moment, well then there is nothing to do but write about it. Though it shouldn’t be a short note. Try to explain why you’re leaving in details.
It will be more honest to give a letter into the hands of the guy. If you break up with him, just because he behaved as a really mean person?
Then leave a letter, where he will probably notice it immediately.
How to tell a man about breakup? Firmly. Without giving any chances that he can get it back. Demonstrating strength of character, you will be able to free yourself from the ex-boyfriend, as well as make him forget it much faster and give him an opportunity to start a new life with a girl who would be better for him.